I just want to let you know that all your fears are normal. I also want to tell you that I had the same fears you are having now when I was considering using DE and also while I was pregnant. I often wondered how my feelings would be for my DE child since I love my bio child so much, I didnt think the love would compare. The instant my DE baby was born, I had incredible love for him. I can't say that I love my bio child anymore. I love them both unconditionally. The love that you will feel is amazing. I really don't think of the DE anymore. I thank God everyday that my eggs were broken because I wouldn't have this beautiful baby today. This was the baby I was suppose to have! I wish you the best of luck! I can guarantee you that when you are holding your baby in your arms, using DE will not be an issue anymore. PLEASE BELIEVE!!!
This message has been edited by Hopingsoon on Nov 8, 2009 2:08 AM
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