I agree with you...after working all day then coming home to be pulled in ten different directions and to hear "MOMMY" a zillion times, when all kids go to bed, all I want is to go to sleep and be by myself. My DH is a very hands on dad and a good husband so it's nothing against him...I am just too darn tired and have no desire for sex. My OB said if I didn't feel that way, I would be in the minority of women. He started giving me testosterone shots once a month (when I remember to go get it) and it has helped alot. I am still dead tired at night but at least now I feel a small urge. Good luck.