I understand them completely. The envy might be a bit different than if you didnt' already have babybird, but still, I think that is normal. Also, sometimes it's hard that all of these people are out having free babies. One right after the other. I feel like screaming in their faces, "YOU DON"T KNOW HOW LUCKY YOU ARE. DON"T TAKE IT FOR GRANTED." I almost plotzed when my closest friend from high school went on and on at how lucky I am that I did'n't have to be 'bothered' with the pregnancy! UGH. She is a sweet person, and thought she was bein helpful, and she clearly just doesn' get it. She had 3 free babies and took her fertility for granted. It is so hard t be surrounded by the fertile myrtles.
And, every cycle has it's own set of fears and dreams and hopes attached to it. There is always so much at stake with this sort of babymaking. I hope you have now settled into your new home and that you are enjoying it. Good Luck with your upcoming cycle.