This may sound a bit flaky but I often wonder where my kid's spirits were for 13.4 yrs

if they indeed had spirits so early. It is interesting to me how, without ever having even seen a picture, my son is captivated with his Meemaw. He talks about her surprisingly often. He randomly commented that Meemaw liked hollyhocks when looking at a farm lift-the-flap book. She passed away almost exactly 3 years after their conception. Was his spirit hanging out in heaven with her? If so, then he surely knew ahead of time that he would be my son. It is just interesting that as little as we talk about her, he mentions her so often.