I send out an Action Plan to the teacher and cc'd the head of school. I said, "ASK FOR HELP WHEN NEEDED. MY DS IS NOT ABLE TO CLEAN HIMSELF YET WHEN HE HAS AN ACCIDENT. YOU F'ING MORON" (HAHAHA, I left the last sentence out.) The head of school responded appropriately for the email and we have a meeting set up for next Thurs to discuss his proper placement/teacher for next yr. IMO, current teacher will not have him again.
The head of school is out for the next 5 days while supervising the upper elementary students while they attend some Montessori gathering in NYC this wk so that is why she could not meet w/ me sooner. When I picked up DD yesterday as DS does not go on T/TH, I did not want to give eye contact to anyone but head of school ran after me to touch base that I got her email, so it was really sweet.
I am going to the Zoo tomorrow w/ DS's class so I will have to spend the entire day w/ the teacher so at first I was like, great; however, I am now thinking it is good as I will get a chance to speak w/ her and get over my anger a little.
As for DH and my mom. Both of them will only follow and not lead. I am the damn leader at work, home and girlscouts. Plz, can I catch a break. Both of them have voiced that they can not do it. Get this, DS and I were home together for 21 months so he could be missing me but he is now 49 months so c'mon adjust. He wants his mommy and I want him but we need food, housing, cars, money, etc.
Thanks for thinking of us. I will let you know after the meeting next wk.