.....when they saw me, a 30 y/o newly-ish wed (married 11 months) who was pregnant. I promise no one would guess I had to go to the extremes of DE to get pg. Just shows we never know how things come to be for people.
I was in the locker room changing one day (work in surgery) and a locker neighbor said something about how I just got married and now pg. I did end up telling her that we'd been TTC for four years by that point. That hushed her up.
We were going to wait till after a few good u/s's to tell our parents, but decided to tell them after three good beta's. I too figured that I'd need the support if something were to happen to the pg. We told my then SD's and the general public at 11 wks.
Me: 33 y/o Him: 43 - He had affairs, now divorced and he's 9 hrs away.
TTC'd 4 yrs - POF'er at 22 y/o, with 1st DE cycle in April '08. TWINS! Embies frozen on day 6: 4 grade two & 2 grade three blasts. Now what am going to do with them?!
Healthy BOY and GIRL were born in Nov 2008! 100% custody since they were 14 months old.