It seems that peri menopause (or menopause?) may be in full effect. I had two periods since having my DD. One at 5 months and one at 6 months. Both were heavy and unpleasant. I have not had one since and there is no chance that I am pregnant-NONE! So, it has been months without a period. I am still nursing, but DD is eating more and more solids and I have pretty much cut back pumping to once (or no times) a day and am using my stash for daycare bottles. It just seems rather sudden though doesn't it? My cycles were always so regular even when going through fertility treatments. I have not gone to the dr partly because I would prefer not to have my period if I don't have to (no good has ever come from it!) and partly because I have been busy. Do you think it is okay to just sort of let this continue or should I go to the dr to get checked out? Has this happened with anyone else? Did periods come back? I am sort of scared to think how heavy it might be after all this time. BTW-I am 42.