You never think that until it happens. So true. (I'm in the midst of my own little health crisis & I'm very close to & actively involved in supporting my dear friend who is battling ovarian cancer. Particularly from the latter perspective, I hear you. You never think it will be you. Sometimes it is you or someone very close.)
Congratulations on your pg.!! I'm happy for you. I know it must be hard at times, but I know how much you want a sibling for Frankie & I'm thrilled things are going so well.
I wish I were able to be around more, but you all are in my thoughts even though I can't post often right now.