YesNovember 12 2014 at 1:51 PM
|Mrs.McIrish (Login Mrs.McIrish)|
Response to Is this ever a tad bit hard for you?
Yes, it's sometimes hard to read how people can't "get over" the genetic loss of having a bio child. If you've done everything you could and nothing worked and DE or DS is a possibility, I can't grasp why you'd rather be CFNBC than try a donor. Adoption is a wonderful route but a very difficult one oftentimes. They are 2 different paths and neither is better than the other. We all get to decide what path is the right one for us.
I have met a lot of IF "friends" online over the 4 yrs + that it took us to get here and it's hard to see the same people struggling over and over with failed cycles yet be so closed off to using a donor when it's pretty clear that their own eggs/sperm doesn't work.
- Re: Yes - De2 on Nov 12, 2014, 2:52 PM
- I admit, sometimes I wonder . . . - Maggie in VA on Nov 13, 2014, 7:19 AM
- it depends - De2 on Nov 13, 2014, 8:21 AM