so sorry about your losses. i had 3 miscarriages last year so i know how hard it is. anyway, i really wish i had done immune and blood clotting testing before i started ttc after the 2nd miscarriage - maybe i could have prevented the 3rd. it is possible that there is a problem causing your losses that is treatable, and i'd suggest checking that out. this stuff is pretty controversial, and my RE doesn't believe in it - she says my miscarriages were due to old eggs (i'm over 40). but it turns out i have antiphospholipid syndrome and other clotting issues, so i don't know if i could carry a pregnancy without anticoagulation.