just found out from J's mom that the fob is dealing....J and he are "separated" (I was wondering why I was not seeing him around any more) but she is trying to get him to take the baby some for a few days.
I am sooooooooooo tempted to have him turned in.
What should I do?????

what is the possibility of him getting caught while he has the baby with him?
Then the ? your neice would face is proove you didn't know that he was doing that and you put a baby in a potentially harmful situation.
Would J listen if you explained that?

I would turn his butt in. This is drugs we are talking about, it's not only a danger to the your family but many other families also.

This is one of those situations where I feel his connection to the family should have nothing to do with it, it's illegal, it's dangerous, and it could possibly be putting the babe and J in serious danger. you can't think about if it makes someone mad or anything like that, I'd be thinking of the danger the drugs he's pushing can cause, your family, other families.

What if he does take the babe and someone is ticked about him over some drug deal?

No question about it, I'd turn him in.

Tough call, but one I would have to make.

Brenda

Brenda, mom to 19ds, 17 dd, with dgs 8m, 10 ds and 8 ds.