I just want my kid to have a sibling, and not sure if I should really go down this road of chasing my one last egg. I have seen Dr. Zhang in New York for an intro appointment (after seeing Spandorfer at Cornell who told me I needed an egg donor while I was still up in the stirrups- just lovely).
Dr. Zhang says its too early for me to be going for an egg donor, that I should give it six months to a year of his low stim IVF. Truth is, if I wait that long, my three year old BB turns 4, 5, 6.... Also, I am a bit afraid that he is selling me a bit too much. This is his cash cow, women like me. He says with six months effort, I have a 20% chance.
I feel so selfish for waiting so long in life to have my children- it was one excuse in my head after another. I need one more promotion first, I need to own a home first, I need to have some more time with my husband first. Well, there are consequences to this kind of thinking and here it is.
TTC: 5 months (got a weird period, and landed at the RE)
1 Failed IUI
FSH: 18 (kiss of death), 11 next month
DH: very good, but tired of me going on and on about this!
Any thoughts out there on just cutting and running to the DE??