I just wish she would have talked to me about her struggle (if that was what it was) because I have been through it and could have offered her support. It may have brought us closer, since we are not very close right now. In fact, I don't even feel like she's my SIL.
I can understand that it may have been painful for her if she was having IF issues herself, but she knew of everything I had been through, since we were very open about it. That is why I like this board. We are all dealing with IF, but when someone is able to overcome it we can be happy for them. We see it as giving us hope. I love to read others success stories, in fact I am going to post mine.