You may want to try the donor egg boards. Go to the High FSH board and there is a link to "Looking to be a DE mom". You will get ton of advice.
Good Luck on your donor cycle!!
DS: 5 (3/2003)
TTC 2: 3 years
DX: Hashimoto's w/super FSH & male factor
Wanting to move on to DE..DH not so sure