In the beginning of our relationship (my husband and I), He wanted to have sex with me several times in one day, but if I didn't want to or if I wasn't getting any pleasure out of it, he would stop and play with me or slowly put just the head of it in and pull it back out. That usually got the juices flowing again or let's say, got me back in the mood or made me aroused again. He just wanted to make sure that I was getting something out of and not just him. So just ask when you start to get a little unaroused, even during the middle of having sex, (he should understand). There's no sense in having to be bored out of your mind because your waiting on him to get finished or trying too hard to get aroused and not getting anywhere with it. Trust me after you have sex a couple of times, tell him to cram it all in and just grind or have him (or you can do it if you're on top) just slowly insert the head of the penis in and then slowly pull it back out, do this a few times and you should get in the mood. If not let him finish or if that might take a while, just say "hey my pus needs a rest!" then wait just a few minutes, give your body time to recoup, then start out with him playing around with you or you playing with him or how ever you get started on having sex and that should be enough to get your body aroused again or you can start out trying the slowly in and the slowly out thing (described above). If he gets upset just explain to him that you just had several amazingly awesome orgasms and you just need to stop before you go into convulsions (Ha Ha) or you just need a breather. If he is still upset then he isn't doing it for you too and he's just thinking of himself. Don't let them (men) downgrade you like that, you deserve more than that. I've been with plenty of men and most of them did it for themselves, and I got tired of that. Stick in there you'll finally get the hang of getting back in the mood even if you had sex for several days and several nights!
