I am not new to sex. I have been sexually active since I was fifteen and I have a hard time expressing myself sexually. I mean, there are a lot of positions that I will not do. I think I am scared to do some things because I don't want to do it wrong. Is there any wrong way to moving during intercourse? I am terrified of climbing onto a penis and riding it. What if I lose rhythm or something? I'd be too embarassed. Is there anyone out there who could give me some pointers? The funny thing about this is that I am extremely freaky. I enjoy whips and blindfolds and things of that nature. It's just hard for me in certain positions to get the movement right. And is there any such thing as bad pussy?

That sounds like the tag line of a "Sex In The City" episode. LOL But seriously, nobody ever knows exactly what to do until they are with someone. Our bodies are all built differently and we all "fit" together in different ways. Even if you mastered the "perfect" technique, the next guy you are with may not like it. The bottom line is get comfortable enough with your partner so that you can communicate about these things. You should both be able to verbalize what you like and don't like. Because sincerely wanting to please your partner is the sexiest part of lovemaking, in my opinion. Bottom line, lighten up! LOL