whenever i'm engaging in any kind of sexual activity and get turned on, i start having this urge to pee. i don't know what causes it and it's not a big problem but i don't understand why being turned on would make me have to go to the bathroom. any ideas?

Not really sure. Do you actually need to pee, or is it just the sensation?

i actually need to pee. but once in a while i'll have to pee but i will have to sit on the toilet for a really long time before i actually pee.

It sounds to me like he is overstimulating your G spot. It is very close to the bladder actually and rubbing it too hard or applying too much pressure to it can cause an awful lot of discomfort. Tell him this and ask to him to take it easy.

I heard it could be a sign of multiple orgasm. Try putting a mattress protector on the bed. The next time you feel the sensation during sex, let your self go. You and your bo may be in for a pleasent suprise. Maybe maybe not. Keep us updated.

I have had a few lovers that have had a much different experience in this area. I do not remember the name of the book, but it was related to a human sexuality collage course. My sugestion is to look into the female ejaculating orgasim. You may be able to find a more indepth solution to this feeling.

When I get turned on I feel like I have to pee the majority of the time and sometimes I will try to pee before sex but I can't.

That actually happens to me. Don't worry about it you wont actually pee. Just let the feeling go, or what Im trying to say is keep going and don't let it stop you. Youll get used to it.