With sex partners Ive had in the past not one has ever given me a vaginal orgasim/uteral.although when I give myself a clitoral orgasim it feels like my uteris is contraction/orgasim.Are these two similar in the end? whether by vaginal or clitoral?maby ive never been with the right sex partner or right relationship.I know communication is essential and my partners have always been expirienced.maby,no one has ever found my g-spot-including me!!!not that I havent tried though-but id at least like to know if theirs a different expirience between different kinds of ways to stimulate and expirience vaginal/uteral orgasim-can any one offer advice or insite to these problems?

I think it depends on how much you truly enjoy strictly being penetrated. Clitoral stimulation TYPICALLY will give you a bigger orgasm, but it really depends. If I am just fucking my own vagina, it does not give me an orgasm unless I rub my clit; however, if there is a man fucking me, look out! I think positions make a difference. Try having him take you from behind - you will feel his penis like never before. If not that way, try straddling him, either facing him or not, and you will have some control that way. My favorite straddling position is when he is reclining on the couch and I straddle him, back facing him. He fucks me so hard, and I can fuck him back in this position. There's somethign hot about being semi-standing when he takes you and gets deep in that vagina and rocks you....ohhhh.

Try just FEELING it. Let the penis give you the pleasure. Then, when you've mastered that, try rubbing your clit while he fucks you. Wow, that is amazing.