ok..so me and my boyfriend have been having sex quite often, almost everyday, then around thanksgiving we didnt get to see each other sexually for about a week and ever since then sex has become harder. harder in the sense that i can't get as wet as i used to...and i'm not that old and he's my first so i haven't been doing it for that long. but lately it's become a real problem not only for him but me as well...is there anything that can help? and how exactly would lube work?

well you could try a lube, but I would first suggest that you ask him to spend a little more time carressing you, kissing you, lightly fingering you and maybe going down on you. Sometimes when men have gone a few days without, they want to just get right down to it, without "warming us up". See if that helps first, then invest in a good lube like the one I have listed on the home page. It realy is the best.