I've tried to have sex probably half a dozen times now, and it always hurts too bad! I don't know if the hymen is entirely broken or not but it really, really hurts. As far as masturbating Ive never really done it but my bf fingers me and even that can hurt sometimes?? Now I tried to fell around to see what was going on, although I'm not sure what I'm looking for, and it all feels kind of swollen now. What's going on? Is this normal? I've had a couple guys go down on me (Although I've never had sex yet :P Trying!!) and no one has ever said it doesn't look or feel normal?
I'm just frustrated!

There could be two things going on here. One your vaginal cavity could just be very small. Many women are like this. The second thing could be that your hymen is very thick and hard to break. It sounds like you've never been to the doctor and that is something a lot of women don't like to do, but you really need to get over it because your vaginal health is something you need to treasure and take very good care of. You could try a very small dildo or vibrator and see if you can insert that all the way, because it could be also that your BF's penis is too large for you.

well thats your reazin