So, me and my boyfriend have been together for a very long time, and have been having sex for about 5 months now. Sex is great, but I don't think I've ever actually climaxed during anything, not just talking about actual sex. But, I cum nearly everytime, but i just don't orgasm ever. It feels good, but it just kind of ends and that's it. We do foreplay as well and he always makes sure that I'm stimulated enough before we actually do it. Am I the problem? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Well you keep saying that you "cum" but you don't orgasm. They are rather the same thing. Perhaps your orgasms just aren't that big. Orgasms differ from person to person. But keep working on it. Perhaps you'll find that clitoral orgasms feel better than orgasms through penetration.

I would like to know the answer to this problem.

It seems like they would go together. But I squirt a lot (not the same as just getting really wet) and don't have an actual rise rise rise then peak then release feeling. It all feels really fantastic. I also don't notice the flushed appearance that is supposed to accompany orgasm. Nor do I notice very fast contractions of my PC muscles. Men will always ask if I came and I never fake anything but I am confused about what my answer should be. Was is fabulous? YES! But did I seem to peak and then feel extraordinary relief? No.