hi iam just 17 and i live in the pihilippines where conservativeness rules!. it will be my 1st time this coming june..so is it ok for me to do it w/ my man at this age? by the way. he's 21..i met him at our school. and if we use condom would that prevent me from pregnancy? 100%??what other ways would prevent me from pregnancy?(The cheap ones)...pls help me..you can scold me if you want..coz iam just a girl.
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Personally I don't have a problem with girls this age having sex. I had sex when I was 13 and it didn't ruin my life. I can say however that condoms are not 100% safe against pregnancy, but you should use them anyway for other reasons, like protection from STDs. The best protection from pregnancy is the pill. And it is definitely worth the money.
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Of course there are some ages that are absolutely too young. But then there is the gray area where its not the AGE but whether or not the person is ready for whatever reasons. FIrst of all, are you thinking of doing it because you feel ready and love him and trust him and want to do it? Not feeling any pressure to do it? If the two of you break up the next month, will you still feel ok with having done it? Have the two of you had a fair amount of foreplay? There is so much to do besides having intercourse! IS he a good lover in the other ways? Do you feel safe with him? DOes he respect you? If you did get pregnant, what would you do? HAve the two of you talked about that?
COndoms are no guarantee against getting pregnant-- they really do break sometimes! ANd they are n guarantee against some std's like herpes which can spread from exposure around the edge of the condom.
If you decide to do it, be sure you do it responsibly. It is your body and your life. Good for you for asking questions. Keep doing that and think about seeing a doctor whom you can trust to discuss birth control. Birth control is less expensive than having a baby!
Good luck Sweetie. Let us kow what you decide.
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You should ALWAYS use a vaginal contraceptive as a back up to a condom. He must put the condom on as soon as he has an erection Don't masturbate him before he has a condom on . You could bring out some sperm which then transfers to the outside of the condom. Don't ask him to stay in after he has ejaculated He must withdraw as soon as he has ejaculated holding the condom on his penis. He should masturbate you before penetrating to open you up .
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Trust me if you come from a very conservative family (like my own) you will be scared no matter what. Ofcourse use a condom, but you should go to the Doctor and get a hormonal method to help you prevent a pregnancy. That helpecd me, and trust me I was scared to death.
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However on the subject of condoms as protection from pregnancy?
Perhaps the one I used would not have failed if I were not "doing it" in the back seat of her car. Large back seat and large care yet still a lot of rocking and rolling and a greater chance of leakage.
I have a wonderful daughter as a result, so its just a confirmation that if one is going to be protected from STD's and Pregnancy one needs to be a lot more careful when using one.
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