I feel like i am letting things that my boyfriend talked about when we were just friends get to me now. When Alex and I first started seeing each other we were friends with benefits because we both got out of long relationships. We were very open with each other and he shared some feelings he had for his ex with me for example: he said that being with her was different than anyone he had been with before and that she was the best he had. Also, he said he was more attracted to her physically than any other girl he had been with even though she wasn't that pretty, and that he would get hot just my looking at her. All of these things didnt bother me at the time but now that I love him it is getting to me and I dont know how to put it out of my mind. I am insecure about sex and constantly think about his attraction to his ex.

This is all when we first started seeing each other..we have been together for 7 months now I would hope I would get over it but it still bothers me.
HELP

Please don't let those things that he has said about his previous girlfriend bother you. Since he is now your bf (of 7 months) he should be over that girl and ofcourse into you. If he is still mentioning her now, then thats when you should be worried.... or perhaps angry at him for not respecting you. Forget about the past and be happy with the relationship you have with him now.

p.s- have confidence in your self because if hes dating you it's because he likes YOU for who you are, and if he still mentions that girl tell him that you don't like it or leave him if he continues to mention her.

~GOOD LUCK~