I am a 18 virgin and going to have my first time soon. I read a lot from web that hymen breaking hurt a lot when it break.
One of my friends told me that her first time very painful due to the vagina wall stretching but only hurt a little when her hymen break.

1) Which is correct?
2) She said that first sex vagina stretching pain is like you open your two leg until widest you can can somebody come to force your leg open a lot more. Is this the pain all you felt?

WELL MY FIRST TIME IT HURT JUST A BIT THEN THE PAIN WENT AWAY BUT SOME PEOPLE DONT FEEL WEN THEIR HYMEN BREAKS OR RIPS SO IT JUST DEPENDS! IT CAN GO EITHER WAY WELL GOOD LUCK ON UR 1ST TIME!

It is not pain full on my frst time

It hurt me more than that because I never have anything inside me before and he is rather large.

There unfortunately isn't any clear cut answer to this. All women are different and have different experiences not only when they lost their virginity, but just having sex in general.

However, if after several times of having sex with this partner, you're still experiencing a lot of pain or discomfort, then you might have to consider that he's not doing correctly, or his penis is physically too big for you.

I think the key is being comfortable with your body being able to communicate with your partner about anything that doesn't feel good, and completely trusting your partner. Everything else is open to exploration.

And like they said above, you might not feel any pain at all.

The first time for me was wunderful. I am still a virgin but i take it in my ass all the time. I found that taking exlax about 30 minutes before is very relaxing and when he enters i swower him with real wet shit OHH

The bigger in around, the more stretching pain you will feel. You friend's bf may have a very big penis, that why she felt more pain from stretching compare to the breaking of hymen.

It hurt the first time when he first put it all the way in. It really was not too bad though and felt nice after a few minutes. It was better the next time. He was a really great freind of mine and I trusted him totally. I think that made it much better.

Just make sure you are ready for it. It probably will not hurt much at all if the boy is tender and kind and you are excitied and want him to do it. I felt no pain at all but i was lucky that my boyfriend was sweet and I so wanted it.