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Recommendation for The Big Vagina Site

October 29 2008 at 12:21 AM
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This site seems to have some decent dialogue and interaction between women, men, and both genders.
How about adding the ability for men and women to offer their compliments and other (positive) comments regarding specific vagina photos in your gallery? I am not suggesting any sort of "rating" or inappropriate/offensive references at all. Rather, only really kind stuff.

My reasoning is based on reinforcing the core mission of your site -- a celebration of the vagina in general along with a forum to facilitate specifc answers to questions about vaginas, etc. I imagine you will get much more interaction and interest if women are able to anonymously but proudly submit a photo to the gallery, knowing (importantly) that their photos will be more meaningful than just a static gallery entry.

Obviosuly you would need to edit and/or remove any comment or members who dont respect the opportunity. But that shouldn't be a problem.

I'm sure you have thought about this. I urge you to consider it again.

With all good intentions.

sincerely,

A normal and polite 50 yr old male, who loves your site

 
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October 30 2008, 10:13 AM 

Thanks so much for taking the time to suggest this. I'm thrilled that you enjoy the site. It is actually something I did do in the past and it just felt wrong to "judge" the women. And that's how it came across.

I'm currently working on something along these lines, but in a much more artistic presentation. More on that soon... Thanks again!


 
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October 30 2008, 2:17 PM 

I totally agree that any commenting in the gallery should not be anything like judging. That is contrary to the spirit of your site.

Obviously you are working on it. My wish is that there is the ability to compliment and express
positives about the submissions. Women will thrive on seeing visitors of both genders describe the beauty of their vaginas.

The ability to comment will (I predict) lead to much higher rates of photo submission and likely higher site traffic in general.

I should mention that the few times women have provided links to post surgery photos, the comments have been almost all extremely positive. I sense that will be the tone from almost all members. If someone wrote a negative comment I am sure the members would rally and support the photo.

Perhaps you dont need to be too complicated. "click on a photo to submit comments as to why you find this vagina special. "Any negative comments or efforts to rate photos will result in expulsion from the site"



 
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October 31 2008, 12:34 AM 

While I do truly appreciate the spirit in which you are coming from and your intentions, I feel that asking people to only make comments if they are positive feels like censorship to me. I don't see how you ask people to comment on things yet censor what they should be able to say. But just give it a chance, I think you'll like what I have in mind.

 
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Almost an impossible task for me

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November 6 2008, 1:57 PM 

I have yet to see one I could rate other then to say WOW.

Other then a view of one that is totally shaved and closed with just the view I saw as a kiddlet - as a male I found that interesting but said "is that all there is" Of course later I discovered the "Much More" and even then say on a nude beach I wish I could ask a stranger to open it up a bit LoL

Kind of like a table at a banquette with all of my most fav foods.

Each wonderful and for me to say anything other then WoW

Anyway just giving my male point of view. Breasts and Vagina's - So different and so much like flowers. So many so different and wonderful.

Perhaps a "hits" count where a click on for the larger view - yet on porn sites where they may do that- what is most popular with others is not always my choice.

 
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