ok basic information first. im 18 yrs old and ive been dating my boyfriend over a year now. im not very intercously (if that even a word) active probably once or twice a month but we are very active when it comes to foreplay (make out, oral sex,hand jobs ect.) like 2-3 times a week. i do masturbate (i wouldnt say this in person its kind of embarrasing but im saying for profession purposes) about 2-3 times a week when my bf is not around so im pretty open down there/streched out. ok so here comes my question when i do the missionary style with my bf it feels more then great fantastic i even tighten to feel the greatness and when he goes in deeper it feels awesome, but y puzzles me is that i tried turning around doing it doggy style (still in the vagina) i feel extreme pain i tried arching my back and moving around my pelvis but omg that makes it SOO much worse. so i also tried getting a sex toy (dildo, smaller than him in size) to see if maybe thats the case if i bend down i cant even put it in its like my hole shrinks or something, so i layed on my back put it in and turned over and that made me wanna scream of pain. i dont undersand if i squeeze when its missionary then shouldnt that mean that i like deep penetration?

There must be something about that position that that ....Darn I really am lost for words on what is going on with you down there.

Everything works NORMAL in every other respect for you. So for the moment why even bother trying doggy style?

You could look up on the web the Karma Sutra positions and there are 100's of variations and try some of those.

Is there a chance you some how associate doggy with the possibility of anal penetration and freeze up?

Being a guy I have one suggestion to try. So try this during your self play moments.

Get all comfortable as you normally do and insert a dildo or carrot (condom covered) etc - into you and just turn over into the doggy position.

What happens when you do?

Would seem to me if your having a good time with yourself and a partner when available then it just may not be the time to try Doggy. As a guy the position is ok but not my favorite. Its good to be able to hold on to my GF's breasts while I am inside her and missionary is not a good position for that. Her on top is also a great position where I can hold on to her breasts while having intercourse.

Doggy for me is more of a Animal kind of thing - good for a variation. One of my best gal friends tells me that Doggy works best for her. She gets more Clit stimulation in that position. She also has a lot of extra Labia and that may be one reason. She is just a great friend so we have NOT - Not that I have not thought about it because I do like that "extra" but I do not want to ruin the friendship.

Well I was talking to my boyfriend about y am I so diffent and I think we came around a good guess. When I was in high school I got badly injured playing softball now that I'm out of school I started experiencing lower back pains and found out that my coccyx aka butt bone dislocates from time to time and I wonder could that be y I have extreme pain does he maybe push up against it?

As I suggested you can experiment on yourself and find out.

So many positions available so just because there is one or two that do not work out - Perhaps much like those allergic to a food - One just moves on to something else.

Well thanks that acctually makes me feel better about myself,I was very concern because I saw that every girl like that position, I thought I was seriously in trouble.

I think it comes down to the way one is built. The gal who is just a close friend told me that the doggy style worked best on her clit. I think it was a matter of her lips being pulled in that position and dragging on her clitoris.

Bunnies dogs cats ducks horses bulls - all from the rear - a more animal like position.

I would rather see my partners face and you cannot do that in doggy unless you were to do it in front of a mirror.

I love her on top so that I can take hold of her breasts - however that means she is also doing more work.

Another GF loved me lifting her in the shower so her legs were wrapped around me- Great fun but frankly one cannot hold that position for say 30 mins without it being hard on the back.

So we all find what works for us and with so many ways to play - I doooon't think you will be missing out on anything.

A Dude,sex with animals does not sound very nice. U might get fleas off them

Why is it called doggy?

As far as I know all animals use that position. Dogs horses cows with bulls etc.

Is doggy better than missionary?

Would it be better for girls to have their breasts on their backs, so you could dance with them and fondle at the same time? Might be able to do that when they can alter the dna in humans and re-arrange what we look like. I suspose dancing would become very popular for everyone.

Women here will have to give their own opinion. A very good gal friend tells me it is her most fav position. It comes down to action the clitoris gets and because Vagina's vary so much I suspect one position is better then another depending on how the gal's parts are constructed. I know from discussions that my friend has a great deal of Labia so that may be a factor. Out of the many relationships I have been in - few have asked me to do doggy a great deal and one even would kid me about why I might want that position. And she was one gal in my life who did ask for Anal on occasion.

Try all positions and you will discover the best ones for different moods and special occasions.