I am 24 and just lost my virginity last night. Almost all my friend lost their virginity during teenage, so I told my bf that I have had sex with few person before but when I saw his penis size, I almost fainted, he is about 9" and very very thick around. I thinks his size is abnormal as I expecting something about 5". I am afraid that he will find out i was a virgin if he hurt me a lot.

I just told him that I never have sex with this big size before and hope he can take it slow. When he penetrate me, he try to make it slow but look like my vagina is very small and he need to thrust hard. Once he get the head inside, the pain was horrible, I felt like my vagina stretch beyond the limit and split, I try to control not to scream even it is too painful for me to handle, hopping he did not not notice I am a virgin. He keep telling me that I am tighter than the virgin he had sex before. I understand that the pain is from my hymen and the painful part was over (I think).

It is not easy for him to push inside me (may be he is too big or I am too small), each heavy push only able to enter me a little bit, once he enter a little more, the stretching pain appear again and split me into half again. This continue for few thrust (may be 9~10 thrust) and then he come, it is not easy for me to handle every thrust. He said he just enter me about 3.5" and he come so quickly due to my tightness. He said will have sex again next week and I am afraid the remaining 5.5" will continue to hurt me like that.

I have a few question:

1) Is his size abnormal?

2) Is this size not suitable for a first timer?

3) Is the pain I felt normal to a girl when she lost her virginity? or it is too much for me to handle?

4) I felt my vagina split, it is really split?

5) Everybody talking about hymen breaking pain, why I felt the stretching pain was more than hymen tearing?

6) My friend told me that its look like hurt a lot more than most of the girl lost their virginity. Is it true? Is it due to his thickness? or just I am too small?

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Not sure why some girls lie about their virginity, because he could have been a lot more gentle if he had known the truth b4 he inserted his MONSTER cock through your hymen. Don't let him insert his cock again until soreness has stopped and any ripped membranes have healed to stop bugs getting into your bloodstream.

But you are a good surviver, and I sincerlely hope sex with slowly get much nicer for you and his OMG size cock.

Probably good that he came quickly, or he could of kept going along time and make your love canal more exhausted from the intense friction. I hope he knows how to suck your clitoris to "bring you off". If not, then he needs to find out how to give you that special pleasure.