are they meant to be big? i know each vagina is different. i really feel unconfident about them espesially wen my boyfriend pointed it out. sometimes it can really be uncomfatable, i really feel ugly. is surgery the answer? and where do i go to get it?
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Girl you should leave it alone - don't waste your tim,e and money to have it "amputated" today's doctor have a way to cash in on women's insecurities - smarten up and be proud of it - if your dumb boyfriend doesn't like your vagina appearance you should dump him and find someone who'd really appreciate it !!! - you're not alone.
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I'm kinda relieved... I have large lips too! i went on the internet today to try to figure out if this was considered an unattractive quality for a vagina to have. I just recently started thinking about this cause i noticed that basically of all the girls in porn have really small tight lips... you can see their clit even when they are just standing there with their legs together (pre-intercourse). They all have nice boobs of course, but i already know whats attractive to guys as far boob are concerned... but as far as vaginas go...?????? i never really even thought that there was an ideal vagina or that mine were large until recently. like i really need another ideal to live up to! I'm glad i came onto this site and saw what you wrote.
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you shouldn't feel ashamed. alot of girls have big lips as long as you don't feel like it's keeping you from feeling good about yourself i bet your a beautiful woman. just keep your sense of humor.
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I was surfing the net with a search for "large labia" because I find larger labia to be extremely attractive. Inner, outer or both. Also, carrying some extra tissue in your genital area to give the "fat" vagina appearance is alos attractive. I'm a tall, good looking, muscular physician who is has a strong preference for larger labia and natural pubic hair. This is the form that we evolved in and evolution/survival is intimately linked ot attraction. Outward, visual signs, that a female is fertile, can handle sex, birth and then live on to complete the cycle again is what the male instinct is based upon.
This message sounds obnoxious but it is true that I can generally have my pick from the diverse range of female body styles. Society tells shorter, skinny, bubbly girls with shaved pubic hair and tight lips vaginas to come to any guy they want while a girl with curves, more pubic hair and larger labia should be ashamed of herself. I wonder if most guys acknowledge that our collective opinion of attractiveness changed soon after gay males and those more interested in the artistic side of modeling came to be responsible for the images seen on tv and in magazines. Skinny girls look neater, reflect light more predictably and give off a more energic signal...in general. The point is that this is for artistic purpose and is not related to instinctual attraction.
I have many friends who go for the petite girl with a waxed vagina and who would also make a joke about large labia if they had seen a pair. These guys are generally smaller in stature, insecure about their ability in bed and their ability to land a hot girl. The prepubescent appearance of small labia and a shaved pubic area part of this modern package of the ideal woman that also included skinny physique and boobs tha defy gravity. The woman was meant to appease guy men interested in art and fashion and insecure men who like to feel dominant and conquering over a girl with these features.
Don't get me wrong. I have made generalizations and there are many stable heterosexual males out there who like small labia, shaved pubic area and skinny physiques. However, I do feel that a large percentage of the male population is confused and if they marry one of these women they may find themselves in the bathroom at age 45, masturbating to a picture of a woman displaying visual signs of fertility.
If your current partner does not appreciate your larger labia, the next one will. Also, pull down your underwear with confidence and make him pleasure you. Confidence is, by far, the most attractive aspect of a female in the bedroom.
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Try not to be embaressed by the size of your labia. Many wowen have large lips. I've gotten a handful of compliments on my large lips from ex boyfriends and one night stands. My current boyfriend cannot get enough of my fat lips. Be proud, you are a real women! Screw what society claims is normal.
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i have a big lips too and i also feel uncomrtable going out to a pool cuz of it i always have to wear swim shorts is there a way i can get rid of my big lips on my vagine?
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What is the problem in swimsuits for you?
One piece, lycra suits can be revealing depending on how they are lined. I once had
a thin synthetic one piece that showed everything. After a few comment from friends I ditched it.
Bikinis come in lots of thicker cotten blends that show very little definition
underneath.
Is it the fabric and what shows through? Or are your lips poking out the sides? I've had that too when the cut of the suit is not wide enough through the crotch.
My labia are defintely on the larger side, but I've always found a solution.
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