ok this has been going on for over 6 months-burning itching and redness in my vagina
was treated for yeast infection by meds and monistat
nope didit go away
went to dr for pap smear checked for stds(even though no sex in 8 months) all negative
its still bad, and is really uncomfortable because i have hemorrhoids also-so the whole thing is a big itch festival!
now i meet someone and scared to see them because of the sex part coming up- i dont think i can with all these problems!!!
i cant back in to see dr til july!

There are always doctors you can see at any time. Maybe not your regular doctor, but there hospitals and clinics all over town that will see you sooner. My guess would be that maybe there is something in clothing that is causing this. Maybe you have some kind of allergy to certain fabrics. This would certainly explain the irritation in both your anal area and your vagina.

But if I were you I'd get on the phone or ask some other girlfriends for a recommendation and see someone before July. You really need to figure out what's going on and solve it.