im 15 years old and my vulva is long and hangs past my outer lips. i dont find it attractive at all and i have been watching porn not because i want to but because im curious if im normal.i havent seen one vulva like mine and it really bothers me and i dont want a boyfriend because at my age boys i know only want sex and to finger people i also feel people would laugh at me or not want to have sex and if they did would they be happy with the way i am. I dont feel feminine at all because it hangs down and could possibly make a lump in my underwear. can anybody give me advice on how to accept my long/big vulva ??

It would NOT be proper for me to encourage you to look at more porn.

That said.... 100,000 pics on web of Vagina's and many many have outer labia showing.

Very NORMAL!!

Im 15 years old also, and i have the same thing. it makes me very uncomfortable to know that a boy is going to look at it sometime and i am also afraid to have a boyfriend because i dont think he will like it.

Longer vulva as you describe is very common. I am in my 30's and have what you decribe.

My question to you gals, is what are you basing your insecurities on? Porn? Trust me, I don't know what porn you were watching but, large vulva's are present all over it. As for worries about boyfriends? That's ridiculous. I've never known a man of any age to be so specific as to labia or vulva size. Ever!

We guys enjoy kissing lips. Lips above and Lips below...the more to kiss is just more to love.

Given a choice I would always go for more more - I take what I can get. I think this must be a lot like men and our Penis. We always want more then we have. I have a fraction over that which is called normal. The real issue is I would like more to show when soft. It looks just great when erect.

So its kind of funny to find women who want larger boobs or smaller boobs if they have the kind that cause back pain etc.

Then there is the Labia issue. Just one more item to worry about - But again for me the more the better and the one great thing about porn on the net is - one can really see a wide range of variations of what is real.

So sure if a women has back pain then I fully support that she have breast reduced.

If a gal is so hung up by extra labia then I suppose I can accept they going plastic.

Me I prefer a non plastic gal.

I have the same problem and im also the same age. you can get labia minora reduction surgery for 6,200. but i've heard that some men like longer labias. but im self concious about the underwear and swim suit thing too.

i guess the best thing we can keep in mind at our age is that every girls body is different, as are boys. i personally will wait to lose my virginity until i'm older and with a guy i really love. that way, i'll be more comfortable with it.

Next time you go to see a lady Doctor Ask her about it.You will get the best answer.
If your Panties don't chafe your Vaginal inner lips you probably don't have a problem

what do you mean by chafe sorry i dont understand

I have been with more than a few lady's and just like everything else on your body some are larger.

I wouldn't worry about it at all. If a guy at 15 was lucky enough to sneak a peek or whatever isn't going to care about that.

All this stuff what women are told now about what guys like is such pooh. I love seeing the Cosmo's type mags saying what guys like... umm are they guys? umm no. They sell add space to companies and write crap to make you feel like crap and buy the stuff in there.

Most of the guys I know hate plastic. They hate boob jobs they don't care for overly skinny girls and a lot of other junk they say. Most men like natural women. Its ok with being 140 and 5'7. Its ok your not a blond or over use spray tan.

Just be yourself and take care of yourself in a healthy way. Anyone tells you that your not normal is not worth being with you. plain and simple....