What is the difference between the vagina of someone who as had sex and that of a virgin

Your vaginal opening is smaller. If you're waiting to consumate on your wedding night like I did, keep in mind that 1) you'll probably bleed when his penis penetrates your hyman and 2) he might be extremely endowed like my man is. Luckily, he used lots of k-y jelly which he smeared up and down his erect shaft and fingered my vagina with lube on his fingers. It hurt somewhat as his penis penetrated my vagina, but he lovingly stroked my clitoris at the same time with his thumb. This caused me to enjoy my first orgasm with my husband, and as my vagina got wetter and wetter, I begged him to ejaculate all his sperm and make me pregnant! My god, even though his erection was nine inches long, his thrusting into my vagina at that point didn't hurt. And then when he told me he loved me, I could feel his penis spasm inside of me and all his sperm squirt out against the walls of my vagina! Be sure to place pillows under your butt and relax while his cum drains into your cervix. Nine months later I pushed our daughter out of my vagina (at my home with a mid-wife)) and put her close to one of my breasts. If you can, do breastfeed. My breasts were full of milk--I even lactated into my husband's cereal...he loved it! Keep in mind, a vaginal birth will make your pussy looser.

"I even lactated into my husband's cereal."

There is a You tube type of Video of a gal coming into a diner and lactating into cups of coffee and bowels of cereal. Very funny

I can tell the girl from my own experiences that "Fingering" a Virgin vs a girl with a broken Hymen - Because the Hymen is not fully closed and allows a finger inside - Only when looking with my eyes or first starting to penetrate did I first realize the girl was in fact a technical Virgin.

So I do not think a guy is going to know one way or the other.