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2 Sets of lips?? and why playboy dont show inner lips.

April 30 2005 at 6:56 PM
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Ok, so I know that sounds weird and its probably not strictly speaking '2 sets' but thats how it looks. I have big inner labia, one is 5 cms and one is 3cms (I couldnt resist measuring, hey, why shouldnt we, guys do :D)which kinda does bother me (more assymetry reasons more than size reasons) but not enough to make me worry too much. My problem is that kinda from the middle of each lip on the outer side theres kinda like another flap on skin coming off which goes around the top of my clitoral hood (its definatly not my clitoral hood, thats below this) and goes around to join the lip on the other side at the same point. It does stick out of my outer labia but its about a cm long (I havnt actually measured this bit!), and I dont know whether or not this is normal. Ive talked to my friends about inner labia size but im too embaressed to bring this up because ive never heard anyone talk about it before and ive never found pictures and I want to know if its abnormal or not. Ive never had any guys complain (mind you they'd get a slap if they did) but Ive got no way of knowing if theyre not saying anything because its normal or not saying anything because they dont want to cause offense. I mean its not like anyone would come out with 'ughhhhh whats up with your puss' at least not guys Ive been with.
It really doesnt bother me that the inner lips are big (although as ive said the symmetry does bother me), as i like the way this looks and i know its pretty normal but I dont know what the other thing is?? Please help!

Also I dont know if this has been mentioned in here before but alot of girlys I know that have got bigger inner labia complain that 'if they're sexy why dont playboy (and such) show pictures of them'. The answer is their not allowed to. Its considered 'too pornographic', if inner lips are shown then the mag then has to be classed as 'top shelf' and has to be put in cellophane. They airbrush out if any of the models do have inner lips because of this. Its not that were too abnormal for playboy girls its that were too pornographic! It also put my mind at rest alot to see that the playboy of the year 2004 has big inner lips and is proud of them (playboy are allowed to show them in their 'specials' magazine that is top shelf) I was reading an interview with her in this magazine and she says shes proud of her inner lips and says that she wont have surgery. Theres another thing to remember also, alot of these models/porn stars do have surgery 'down there', its really common amongst them.

 
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Re: 2 Sets of lips?? and why playboy dont show inner lips.

September 1 2009, 6:30 PM 

Times are changing with better sex education at schools and lots of 'Sex and the City' stuff. About 1920, a book was banned from sale as grossly pornographic because it contained the words, "and that night, they were not divided". I suspose that means they were having sex.

If you have extra lips or different shapes, you should feel lucky. Film stars make money from looking good, but not many are happy with life. If their dress size is 8, they are considered OBESE, which means they are not in charge of their lives, but DANCING TO THE DRUM BEAT OF OTHERS who employ them.

If guys are still wanting to have sex with you, they obviously LIKE WHAT THEY SEE BETWEEN YOUR LEGS. So nothing to fix up, just tell them how much you enjoy their cuddles. Guys like to get feedback and it keeps them hooked to you.

 
 
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