Thank you to whoever created this website. I can say I've been insecure about my labia for years. Im 20 and Ive been sexual with for the first time with my current boyfriend. I've messed around with guys but I was always too insecure to let them touch me or go down on me. My boyfriend loves my lips and he says they are unique and hot. He says he loves them because "they are always there, ready to play" haha So for all you girls who are like me and very insecure, screw it... you will eventually find a guy who loves your vagina. I have been in the same place as all of you girls, and it's an awful feeling. Keep your heads up, because it's not as bad as it seems. If he's a good guy he will love your whole body... and most guys are just happy to be gettin some action that they don't care. I'm still working on not being so insecure and my boyfriend is really a big self-esteem boost. Thank you to all you big labia loving men!!! And girls, be proud of your bodies!!
If a guy progresses slowly down your body during a courtship, by the time he gets to the business end, he should be so hopelessly in love with you that he is not going to be fussy about your labia.
If he is a good kisser, he gets to go further down. The trick is not to give in too easy. If he cares about you, he won't run off to another girl who will give him what he wants as soon as he asks for it (or takes it). If he does run off, it proves he wanted sex instead of making you happy.
