Honestly, you sound like ME!

I' not sure what kind of hair you have, or if you've chemically processed it to the point of almost "going bald" (like me) but maybe you need to add protein in your plan. Try Nioxin Structure & Strength for Fine Hair. This is the BEST RECONSTRUCTOR I'VE EVER TRIED! Leave it on w/ a towel for 30 minutes a few days in a row, making sure you follow it up w/ a good
"moistuzing" conditioner (Nexxus Humectress, Loreal Nature's Therapy, etc....). This should really help smooth your hair out, making it more "strong" & less likely to tangle. All I know is that when I did that, it really helped the condition of my hair, & my hair stayed nice ALL DAY! Just REMEMBER to follow the Nioxin up w/ a moisturizing treatment, or your hair will feel even more dry.

Good luck!
Hillarey