I have been writing in the column several weeks in a row about people who you think are your friends and then one's that you do not believe are your friends actually are and the one's who like to stir the pot. Do stir the pot, well this week we need to talk about people and i know we all have them in our lives. People who love to stir the pot and screw with both sides of a coin. I am talking this week about a friend' and i use that term, very loosely. I have had a friend for a number of years who i thought would go to bat for me. In recent months i have found out that she basically spent a lot of her time playing on some rumors i have heard about people I was married to and dated as well and played both sides. Without being to vague, let's just go and name some names.
Basically I have a real good friend in the McPherson area who has been obsessed with being my girl for a number of years. Every time I get a new date or talk about getting back with my wife. All the sudden my good friend is there with info. However in the last few years a lot of her info ends up being half right or just total BS. For instance when I began dating Mi...The Liar 2, I ended up getting several rumors and things that were being tossed my way about her. She was also being fed different things by her friends who happen to talk with my good friend. When things were not going good for me and Mi...The Liar 2. I ended up getting and giving some info to My good friend and she ran with it.
In the following days of my break up with Liar 2, I was told about my good friend wanting a copy of the now famed 'Letter'. I gave her a copy of it, then while she was talking to me on text message and on the phone and gaining info and passing it to me about her and she was tossing info to her about me. Then low and behold, I get a e-mail on Myspace forwarded to me from an unlikely source. We will not name names here, but if you put 2 and 2 together. Someone I thought hated me and my guts for tossing her world into a tailspin would somehow send me an e-mail from my good friend. Basically what we have here is we have one person trying to play both sides against the middle. Then have her dear sister contact me randomly on myspace and instant messaging, hoping i would pass along info so then all the pots can get stirred again.
My take on this whole issue is you think your friend is watching out for ya and then you realize that all she is doing is going to you and getting info and then going back to the other person and getting info so she can pass it between the both of you and get more stirring of the pot done. Good lord, once i cut this person off now me and Mi...The Liar 2 do not have to worry about all the BS that was being stirred between us. Plus I still have not heard the lawyer that was going to contact me about being sued for defamation of character and all. Oh wait, did i just expose you for being a liar? NO, really? Oh I just love airing dirty laundry for the whole world to see. What is even more sick is that there are people out there who read this and love it.
Finally due to popular demand i will post the e-mail that was forwarded from the most of unlikely sources to me. So enjoy those of you who do like this sort of thing, others of you who are sickened and do not like this, I will get back to business next week with me reflecting on the mess that was Super Bowl pre-game. From Vin Diesel and Paul Walker getting checks for yet another F and F movie. Plus The Rock making stupid kids movies instead of showing up in Houston for Wrestlemaina facing off with Shawn Michaels or John Cena. To people getting treated like 12 year olds with 3D glasses and taking a piece of crap NBC show and blowing up to being a 3D piece of crap show on NBC. Then finally BHO coming on NBC and talking politics instead of football and last but not least, Dan Patrick and Keith Olberman thinking it's the early 90's and it's ESPN, Sorry wrong letters.
Jiggy Jaguar
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hmmm.. thats messed up... ive know him for alot of years and some of the **** he does still gets me... i sure u now know james is very 2 faced.. so he ir really hard t know what he might do next... granted he is a close frind to me but i know him well enough to know how he is so i dont get any surprize.. he is a sneek ****er i do know that much...
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From: michelle
Date: Jan 9, 2009 11:21 PM
ave no clue. i came back to mac for xmas with my family and he was sposed to come get me and take me back to salina. instead i got a text telling me that my stuff was in the yard and i needed to come get it. i'm just as confused as you are. i had an amazing job there and hated to leave it. now i'm broke and starting all over again for the third time in two months. anyhoo. i don't know why he went crazy on me. all i know is he said i lied and he went through my phone every day. not sure why he did that either. im pretty paticular on who i let look at it. lots of things can be confused and you can jump to conclusions easily through reading someones phone texts. but i have no idea what happened. i thought he was a better friend than that. i guess i was wrong.
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From: Kristy
Date: Jan 9, 2009 11:09 PM
ok.. just know im here and will if i can...i still pissedoff at him right now... so if i can ask want made him turn on u like he did?? im confuss with this whole darn thing...lol
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From: michelle
Date: Jan 9, 2009 10:49 PM
if i think of anything i will let ya know. thanx bunches.
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From: Kristy
Date: Jan 9, 2009 10:41 PM
ok.. thanks... if there is anything i can do to help with this whole james thing let me know.. i know beter then he knows him self... so if i can plz just ask...Kristy
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From: michelle
Date: Jan 9, 2009 10:36 PM
it's ok. i don't hold anything against you. you were just looking out for sam and believed a good friend. everything is cool. i've been through worse.
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From: Kristy
Date: Jan 8, 2009 8:00 PM
hey im really sorry about all this bull**** james has been pulling the last few weeks... Im so pissed at him that he put me in the middle of all this... I just want to send u a quick e-mail and say im sorry..I didnt relize he would make up a fake letter just to try and hurt you..anyway again im really sorry..Kristyi h