Hi Donna
i do check in from time to time to see how everyone is doing. when we had my Dh tested in January, his sperm was kinda the same, some were ab-normal, most were slow, and some were "undetectable" . which i had no clue what that meant. the Dr. said it meant that there was sperm there just they could not see it, ( i call them ghosts sperm) so he did the boxer shorts and i did feed him tons of vitamin c. since hes a welder, i guess sperm don't do well with the exsessive heat. the Dr. said if i wasn't pg within 3 mnths that he would put me on clomid, to give my Dh more target to shoot.well, after 3 mnths still nothing, but i did wait till July, before going on the clomid. sorry this is sooo long but i wanted you to know that i was in the same boat as you, and it was awful the way my dh was feeling. infact i was sure that i didn't get pg my fertil week because the house was in an uproar that week, and we didn't do the bd hardly at all. it was just the stress of it all. i was gonna quit. but don't give up, it just takes time. i prayed to god every night for him to do what HE thought was best.obviously he thinks its best, now i pray all thru hoping for a healthy baby. my prayrs are with you!!! Maureen
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