My pastor is supportive all the way. There are others at my church who have had fertility treatments. The ones who criticize or give really bad advice usually have kids! They don't know anything about what we go through or why we want to go through it. If this is the attitude of this church it may not be a good church. The way I see it if God doen't want me to have children.. then I wont no matter what I try. I go to a conservative church (Baptist) and they are not like that. I havnt gone for a couple of weeks. Last time I went a pg woman sat down next to me. It was all I could do to keep my composure. I was sort of angry with God for that one though> I know that is not the attitude to have. I think she had it now I can go back. Not beeing so upset now may help with that.I may try this one little church closer to me where mostly elderly people go. |