I unsubscribed from the clomid club when I became pregnant, but I check the message board every now and them to see how you all are doing. I just wanted to let you all know that I am praying for each one of you and hoping you all have an influx of positive betas soon like we all had after Christmas. Keep your chins up and don't give up.

I am 25 weeks now and have a friend going through infertility treatment. I wanted to ask you all how I can best help her without making her sad because I am pregnant. Let me know if you have any advice. I know how I felt when I was trying with a pregnant sister! I just don't know if I should ask my friend how things are going, if AF came, etc. or if I should just let her talk if she needs to. I truly understand how difficult it is to be on her end of things and want to make sure I am good and supportive!

Good luck and best wishes to you all. I hope morning sickness hits you all soon. You will probably be like me- not minding hugging the toilet so much because it reminds you that baby is there!

Mary

Hi Mary,

My answer to your question about dealing with your friends IF is to just be there and listen when SHE wants to talk about things. Don't ask about AF, remember what is what like for you and you will know how to help her. Your pregnancy will always make her a little sad, eventhough she might not show it. Seeing you happy and pregnant is a reminder of what she is missing right now. I would say just continue to be a good friend and support her in any way that you can. Good luck to you!!!! Enjoy every second of your pregnancy.

Nancy