but they never even gave us the right SS# and the right one was never declared disabled and had I found out before we finalied (which took over 12 months cause of incompetent paperwork on someones part) and it took 8 months to bring her home after matching! URG!!!!!!!!!!! it makes my blood boil..... and you would never believe the things she wouldn't do or they forgot to mention (she had been returened to DFS 3 times from adoptive placements!!! And had 5 actual families in that time and ................. she wouldn't take a bath or ge tin water or eat solid or..... I could go on and on on on!
But in the year and 8 months she has been here........... she has made over 2 years of developmental progress.... our new thing is huge anger issues (came with them.... but we worked on getting her used to people and touching..... now she is snuggle bug and such.... but it was hard hard work............and After three at birth / close to this was a huge surprise!
you can read and see about her and us at
http://thegrumpyfamily.blogspot.com/
JAne
