Ruby Chow had no good impression of Lee and she lied that Lee had never been a busyboy in her restaurant before. Her words on Lee are not reliable. Lee respected elderly but for those old guys who acted like autocrates and big shots, Lee would never succumb and wouldn't be nice in his attitude.
Spoiled child? Lee came from a quite well-to-do family from HK with servants to do all the housewhores for him. But in the U.S. he had to work part-time jobs in restaurant, newspaper, taught dance and Gung Fu to survive etc. He did had a violent temper but that didn't meant he was a spoiled child.
Frankly, you seem more like a spoiled child when people disagree with your opinions. LOL