...of the happily-married man!
Just because you're irrationally scared of them, doesn't mean they aren't aware of your every word, thought and deed...
The #1 Most Important Rule for a happy marriage, according to marriage counselors, clergy, Confucius and bartenders, is very simple: Just do whatever She wants, more or less. At the very least, choose your battles very, very wisely. But..don't let Her think you've given up on The Discussion Of Important Things! You'll pay dearly, if She thinks you've "disconnected."