You have "tried"December 11 2006 at 1:59 PM
|Vince (Login MoxiFoxx)|
Response to I take your point
But that's where you keep making your mistake. By continuing to "try" to help, you're just assisting with the continued behavior.
People who work with people to help them professionally, soon come to realize this. They get burned out when they keep "trying" to be helpful and decent. Ultimately, they have to get short, to the point .......... and then withdraw from the situation UNTIL the "victim" comes around to a different perspective about himself.
When the "victim" finally realizes his OWN mistake and acknowledges that (without offering excuses for his former bad behavior) .............. he can actually and truly be helped.
- cant I be - Julian on Dec 11, 2006, 4:46 PM
- "Wrong" - Vince on Dec 11, 2006, 4:53 PM
- I dunno - Julian on Dec 11, 2006, 5:39 PM