Haven't you ever heard the saying that a friend loves you warts and all. That's what I mean. When I am a friend to someone I really don't have any expectations in return. All you can do is offer someone your friendship and not expect to receive friendship back.. Accept people for who they are and appreciate what you have in common. I just discovered that we have a lot in common and I have enjoyed talking with you., I offer you my friendship and it's totally up to you if you accept the gift or not. I have a very good friend who has tremendous burdens in her life. I try my best to help her and she really doesn't have anything left for me because her life is such a mess. That's okay with me. I appreciate who she is and not what she can do for me. You owe me nothing Vince and I expect nothing. If you would prefer I will go back to read only here...no problem...no hard feelings.
Joanne