Re: Weight talk

mostly it's my husband and mom but they are constantly telling me to eat more bc ive lost weight. my mom came up last night and my dad called on the phone, and they had a detailed discussion about what i was able to put in my mouth that day!! then this morning again. she got off the phone and i was like "really mom?". im sure i will get it full force once my husband's family finds out.
with my son - i only gained 17 or 18 pounds and heard crap about that all over the place - except for my mom and husband bc i wasnt as sick with him so they just figured it was normal.
but yes you will find that a lot of people have all kinds of advice to offer regarding weight, the birth, how your kid will never sleep and you will never sleep again until your 40 (or 50) and so on.
(and for the record, i was sleeping fine when my son was 7 weeks old bc by that point he was sleeping 9 hours straight and i was breastfeeding exclusively...not common but i just hate it when people tell new moms that they will never sleep again!)