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so sorry

March 24 2012 at 5:41 AM
juliemam  (Login juliemam)
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Response to It is over!!! My heart is broken

I am so sorry to hear this.

But (and I hate to say "but") as strange as this sounds, those two days of hope and joy should be cherished. She CAN get pg and will again. I've read and heard of women being more fert following a m/c. It's not a given but a hope.

I know you feel terrible for her and there is probably some guilt in there too, right? I know. I have a twin, although a brother and feelings are more complicated when it's a twin (I also have 3 other siblings and when my other brothers' had their babies, it didn't affect me as much as when my twin had his babies. it's complicated)

As soon as the progesterone was seen as low, she should have been on prog. She'll be better equipped with this knowledge next time and will be able to discuss this with her dr during the followup to this sad event.

Give her time to mourn and let her know how we all feel her pain. and yours.

what week are you at? I think I missed seeing your are pg. sorry. That is happy and hard at the same time.

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  1. Thank you Julie - Tami on Mar 24, 2012, 8:22 AM