I am glad you are not leaving. I have been on these boards for a while, years, and believe me, I have seen it all. Like you, the reason I am hanging in is to cheer on other people who may need hope like someone did for me years ago and also try to hopefully, get Ttc # 2 on the way.
Never let anon trolls and psychos get to you. It is a reflection of them and their inner turmoil like Z said. (me paraphrasing).
Get a massage, relax and enjoy your three cute babies. Like you, I am deeply religious and not everyone is. I saw the thread in question. Disregard them.
You are a great person and never let trolls make you feel otherwise.