I'm so happy that you found my advice useful. I always feel like people are sick of reading my preemie story, but I just felt so lost once I knew what was actually happening. Preemie account for 11% of all births in the US but nobody talks about it! My first scare at 28 wk wasn't even bc of BH contractions, I had severe back pain and it turned out to be back labor. If I hadn't gone to the hospital for it (and it was Christmas day so I kept saying I'll wait until tomorrow) I might have ended up with a 28 wk preemie, which is a much more hectic and uncertain situation than the 34 wker I had. (who is in the 95th percentile of 2 yos I might add)
Did they give you nifedipine? Ugh. That stuff is awful. I hope it didn't make you feel too bad!