In-laws were coming to visit about 3 weeks after DD was born.
We specifically told them not to come after a specific time because I would be pumping and DD needed a nap. In those early days, you try to stick to a schedule for your sanity!
Well - they showed up EARLY... minutes after I had started pumping...
I hid in the bedroom while they sat outside on the porch.
They knew I was home and kept banging on the door.
I finished pumping and doing my thing and let them in the door.
It was a HOT day so the FIL wasn't doing well sitting out in the heat. (Why he didn't bring water - I don't know...)
I heard a few times that day how I was rude, etc. They were also upset that DD was napping and I wouldn't wake her up. (She slept another hour or two...)
He was also POed that I wouldn't lift a TV to get the pillows & blankets for them which was stored away in a chest the TV was on top of. Hey - I had just given birth! (Again - they could have brought blankets and pillows!)
Three years later - they still don't get it...
And three years later, I still don't care...