So so sorry to hear this. But honestly I am amazed at your wonderful attitude. I actually had a chuckle at your post, because you and I have the same "recovery" plan...right down to the gray roots, the spa day, the cocktails and the diet coke.
It is wonderful that you have the frosties to work with. I don't know if you saw it, but last week I posted on the other board about some new studies that show frozen might be better than fresh in some situations. Would love to re-open the discussion about FET regimens again when you are ready.
But that is for later. For now, do whatever you feel like doing. And please vent away if you need to. Lord knows you have been there for the rest of us when we need to vent!