thanks for responding. I've come to the conclusion that the MF is insurmountable. Did you and DH discuss donor at all, or was that never an option? I'm miserable today about it, I really think it's the reason I'm not getting pregnant and just feel hopeless. He won't do too much about it, he already has a kid and isn't that invested. I know your hubby did everything, but surgery is not an option for us. How did you deal with all of it? Any advise?